My final big breakup had been very nearly 36 months ago. It absolutely was terrible (we never spoke once again), and I also grieved in a way that is big. We vented to my friends constantly, We wrote—and We cried, like, a great deal. Meanwhile, my ex-boyfriend had a girlfriend that is new six weeks and a different one right after her. (Yes, I kept track of their media that are social a lot longer than i ought to have.) I marveled at exactly exactly just how quickly he did actually have managed to move on using this thing that felt so big in my experience.